5 Signs You’re Absorbing Too Much Energy

  1. You Feel Drained After Social Interactions

    • Even brief conversations leave you feeling tired or emotionally "off."

    • You might feel exhausted without knowing why.

  2. You Experience Mood Swings That Aren’t Yours

    • You suddenly feel sad, angry, or anxious for no personal reason.

    • Your emotions seem to shift with the people around you.

  3. Physical Discomfort or Tension Around Others

    • Headaches, tight chest, nausea, or body aches that appear in certain environments or around specific people.

  4. You Struggle with Boundaries

    • You say “yes” when you want to say “no.”

    • You feel guilty for protecting your time or space.

  5. You Often Need to “Detox” After Being Around People

    • You isolate yourself, crave solitude, or feel the need to "clear" your energy after social situations.

What You Can Do To Stop Absorbing Too Much Energy

Here are grounded, effective strategies:

  1. Strengthen Your Personal Boundaries

    • Practice saying no without guilt.

    • Limit time with people who consistently drain your energy.

  2. Ground Yourself Regularly

    • Use grounding techniques like walking barefoot, deep breathing, meditation, or spending time in nature.

    • Visualization: Imagine roots growing from your feet into the earth.

  3. Shielding Visualization

    • Before entering energy-intense spaces, visualize a protective bubble or light around you.

    • Set the intention: “Only positive energy can enter.”

  4. Cleanse Your Energy Field

    • Use tools like:

      • Smudging (sage, palo santo)

      • Salt baths

      • Sound (singing bowls, chimes)

      • Breathwork

    *Daily energetic hygiene can prevent buildup.

  5. Spend Time Alone to Recharge

    • Prioritize solitude, especially after socializing.

    • Create a calming space where you can decompress.

Download my Daily Grounding + Protection Ritual for support.

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